Suicide is Preventable


September 9, 2020

Written by: Sudhakar Selvaraj, MD, PhD

Suicide ranks tenth as the cause of death, attributing nearly 45,000 deaths annually in the United States per Center for Disease Control (CDC) (1, 2). Within the United States, during the year 2016, an estimated 9.8 million adults thought about suicide, 2.8 million made a suicide plan and 1.3 attempted suicide (3). The public health importance of suicide is undeniable, considering the human and economic cost of suicidal behavior (suicide ideation, suicide attempt, and suicide) in individuals, families, communities, and society. Accurate determination of underlying factors among individuals who died by suicide remains a clinical and health policy priority since the identification and treatment of individuals at risk for suicide is the only effective strategy in preventing suicides. In this article, I summarized a brief note on practical steps to prevent suicide.

The most common warning signs of suicide are;

  • changes in behavior (more sad, worried, isolating self from others – physically/virtually from other forms of communication),
  • talking about hopelessness, or any talks about suicide or behavior should be taken seriously especially such as making a suicidal plan or searching for a way to kill themselves
  • Any sudden change from the usual behavior should be significant. Ex. When a person who socializes typically well, is suddenly isolating themselves.
  • Worried about loss or failure, lost someone or relationship or others such as losing a job, or failing at school or work
  • Engaging in reckless behaviors (excess drinking, illegal drugs).
  • Another recent phenomenon is posting suicide messaging in social media – see https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/suicide-faq/index.shtml for further advice.

It is important to remember that the warning signs vary between people based on their personality, coping styles and social activities. However, not all people present with these signs. Any mention of unbearable emotional pain, guilt, talks of failure, mood swings and agitation in anyone are warning signs for someone who may need help.

Steps should a member family or friend do if a loved one is showing all the warning signs and is calling for help through their behavior.

Ask the concerned family member, relative or friend if they are thinking about suicide.

  • Listening, making self-available and being supportive are the first steps.
  • Make them safe by removing any means that increase suicide risk (tablets, access to firearms etc).
  • Encourage the person to seek professional help in a less obtrusive, but caring way.
  • Provide them with the helplines and contact for professional mental health clinics or telehealth services.
  • Be supportive and caring and help them to seek professional help.

Things to avoid saying:

  • It is strongly advised not to dismiss or belittle someone’s distress. Acknowledge their emotional pain and respectful – not say “you’re talking crazy” “be logical.”
  • Do not disrespect or patronize “things could be worse” “there are more people in a bad situation than yours” “you have everything.”
  • Do not criticize the behavior or saying something like “grow up.”

Steps dealing with the stigma present in the rhetoric of suicide in everyday conversations:

  • Reminding that “words matter” and stigma worsens mental health in preventing people from seeking help and worsens the recovery.
  • Practicing empathy (reminding how someone going through emotional distress feel) improve the well being.
  • More education about mental health treatment and recovery.

How to reach for help if having thoughts or ideas of suicide?

If you need help for yourself or someone else, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline – 1-800-273-8255

Are there any specific groups of people who are more at risk for suicidal thoughts and attempts?

Anyone with a previous history of suicidal attempts, mental health or substance or alcohol misuse and chronic medical problems are particularly at risk. Also, young people from minority communities and LGBTQ youths are at high risk of suicide.

Specific help for LGBTQ – “call a trained counselor at The Trevor Project (for LGBTQ youth, friends and family members) on 1 866 488 7386 or text START to 678678” http://www.thetrevorproject.org

COVID-19 Situation Specific

Given our current COVID-19 situation, how to support someone with suicidal ideation remotely?

COVID-19 is an unprecedented and very stressful situation for most of us. The situation can be even more difficult for someone who vulnerable due to mental illness or health problems.

  • We are more socially connected using electronic means than ever. Reaching out to friends, families, work colleagues, other organizations we are connected is essential. Sometimes offering to listen and checking if someone is Ok can be a highly effective means to reduce suicide risk.
  • Lots of digital tools are available to stay connected – video conference chats with friends, loved ones and families can be utilized effectively.
  • ONTOBETTERHEALTH.COM
  • Text the Crisis Text Line (text HELLO to 741741) https://www.crisistextline.org/
  • Chat: suicidepreventionlifeline.org

Advice for individuals who feel immense stress during these times specifically?

  • Keep in touch with family and friends and talk to them daily/regularly.
  • Keep self physically healthy – walk, stretch, yoga or pilate inside the house or garden.
  • Deep breathing, meditation, progressive muscle relaxation are useful tools.
  • Stay away from negative news or social media coverage if it makes to you feel stressed
  • Seek professional mental health support

Resources for someone experiencing a unfortunate loss of a loved one due to suicide.

Each suicide severely affects family members, friends and community for the long term and puts survivors at higher risk for physical and mental health problems. Survivors of suicide victims suffer alone and often do not seek mental health care.

Disclosure: Dr. Sudhakar Selvaraj has received COVID-19 Emergency Response for Suicide Prevention from SAMHSA (Grant no: 1 H79 FG000470-01). He is also Co-Principal Investigator, NIMH R21 grant (1R21MH119441 – 01A1). UTHealth faculty supplement funds also support his research.

REFERENCES

  1. Stone DM, Simon TR, Fowler KA, Kegler SR, Yuan K, Holland KM, et al. Vital Signs: Trends in State Suicide Rates – United States, 1999-2016 and Circumstances Contributing to Suicide – 27 States, 2015. MMWR Morb Mortal Weekly Rep. 2018;67(22):617-24.
  2. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Suicide and Self-inflicted injury data 2015 [updated September 30, 2015. Available from: http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/suicide.htm.